When I first went to London as a
student I sat alone during parties with my
glass of wine. I hoped people would thought 76. ______
that I was having great thoughts, and that
someone might come towards me and say,
"Excuse me! I hope you won’t mind I
coming up to you like this. I don’ t want to
interrupt your thoughts.., but real, you are 77. ______
the only interesting looking person in the
room! May I say to you" It never happened 78. ______
Here is some advices if you want to be a 79. ______
good conversationalist: be an attentive listening. 80. ______
Encourage others to talk about themselves.
To be interested. Ask questions that other
people will enjoy answer. Encourage them to 81. ______
talk about themselves and what they have
done.
Remember that the people you are talking
to are a hundreds times more interested
in themselves and their problems that they 82. ______
are in you and your problems. A person ’ s
toothache (牙痛) mean more to that person 83. ______
that a famine (饥荒) in Africa. A pain in 84. ______
one’s ann interest one more than 40 earthquakes 85. ______
in another part of the world. Think of
that the next time you start a conversation.